So you’ve read through the information on this site, had a look at some more in-depth resources from elsewhere and want to explore the world of fetish beyond the realm of tickling? The good news is that there is a truly remarkable community out there waiting for you that will welcome you with open arms. The bad news is that it can be rather overwhelming, especially if you dive into everything at once.

While there’s no definitive guide on how to do this we do have a few suggestions that we hope you’ll find useful. Firstly, read up a little on your chosen subject(s). Get an idea of what’s involved, what equipment you need, what attracts you to that particular fetish and what worries you. Don’t worry, it’s natural to be worried about something you’ve never done before.

Register on a reputable fetish web site and ask any questions you may have. Just please try to do so politely and check beforehand to see if the question has been asked and answered before. Get to know people on-line, the more you’re known within that community the more opportunities that can come your way if you wish them to.

Next, find a munch or market near you with a decent reputation and go along. Yes, it’s a scary thing to do and a big step but it’ll be okay. Just remember to be honest about your relative level of experience as the more experienced members of the community can usually spot someone being less than honest from a mile off. Aside from anything else, if you’re not honest about your experience, you may end up in a situation where you’re over your head and in a position to harm someone who’s put themselves in your care.

From there, well, you’ll probably have to play it by ear. Whether you have an existing partner or not will of course have a big impact on your play options but if you want such an opportunity and are willing to put in the effort to get to know people then something will more than likely come along.

Basically, make the most of your opportunities, talk to people, put in the same effort you would to join any other social circle and you’ll have a great time. Don’t be afraid to ask questions but remember to respect other people’s privacy and treat all those you encounter with respect even if their fetish isn’t something you personally are interested in. Oh, and most importantly - have fun!

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