One of the main reasons this community exists is to help people meet up for some tickling fun and it’s always gratifying when we hear of members expanding their horizons. While we make every effort to encourage this, and provide as many opportunities as possible for people to get to know each other outside of the forum, we do have a few suggestions to bear in mind when meeting someone you don’t know particularly well for some fun and games.

Firstly, talk in advance about what both of you would want out of a session. Discuss any bondage that may be used, talk about your respective limits and what you do and don’t like. Don’t be afraid to admit if you don’t have much, or any, real world experience - it’s much better to be honest up front than to find yourself in over your head later on. The ideal goal is not necessarily to map out every action in a potential session but to have a basic overview and a good understanding of just where the limits are for both of you.

Secondly, meet in advance in a social situation and in a very public place. Bars are a good option, same goes for restaurants, coffee shops, anywhere really where you can talk, get to know each other a bit better, see if there’s any connection between you and make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to go any further.

Thirdly, if you do decide to carry on, we do strongly suggest that you don’t necessarily go back to someone’s home unless you’re very confident that you know them well. It’s very unlikely they’re really an insane axe murderer but better not take the chance if you know what we mean. A hotel room is at least a little more public and most folks can just about tell the difference between a scream of ticklish horror and a scream of pain from dismemberment. Most importantly though you’ll know in advance where you’re going to end up which leads us on to the most important point.

Set up a series of ‘safe calls’. These are scheduled telephone calls you make to a friend, preferably one who’s close by and who knows your intended itinerary for the day. If you don’t make the call by a certain time they can try and call you, if there’s no answer they can assume something’s wrong and act accordingly. If you’re following these tips you’d probably setup a quick call when you arrive just to confirm everything’s going to plan, a call when you finish the social stuff and a call an hour or two after you arrive at the hotel.

Again, it’s all about being sensible and taking reasonable precautions the same as you would with meeting anyone you didn’t know... only with tickling and (possibly) bondage thrown in to the mix.

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